What No One Tells You About Graduation Day
- Paradise Rodriguez-Bordeaux
- May 14
- 3 min read
Real talk, because the logistics and emotions are just as real as the ceremony.
Graduation day is more than just a walk across a stage. It’s a whirlwind of emotion, logistics, and tiny moments you’ll remember forever — if you’re prepared. Beyond your cap and gown, here’s what you really need to know:
1. The Day Moves FAST — Be Ready Early
You won’t have time to fix makeup, steam your outfit, or find safety pins once you're there. Triple-check everything the night before. Set multiple alarms. If you’re traveling, give yourself extra time — traffic and parking will be chaos.
✅ Pro tip: Pack a mini kit with water, snacks, oil blotting sheets, mints, deodorant wipes, and a phone charger.
2. It’s Emotionally Overwhelming — And That’s Okay
You might feel joy, sadness, anxiety, or even…nothing. That’s normal. Not everyone cries. Not everyone feels "proud" on command. If your brain feels blank or you're just relieved it's over, you're not doing it wrong.
3. Photos Will Be a Mess Unless You Plan Ahead
Don’t count on grabbing the perfect photo “sometime after.” Have a dedicated friend or family member ready to snap pics right after the ceremony — before everyone starts sweating, taking off robes, or disappearing into dinner plans.
📸 Make a quick shot list:
Solo cap + gown
Candid laughing shot
With your favorite professor/classmate/family
Throwing cap in the air (bonus points if someone catches it)
4. Your Name Might Get Mispronounced — Take a Breath
Yes, it's frustrating. But it doesn’t erase everything you’ve done. If you're worried, hand in a phonetic spelling card ahead of time if the school allows it. If it still happens, shake it off. Your degree has your name on it.
5. Post-Ceremony Chaos Is Real
Expect a flood of people. Spotty cell service. Long lines for photos. Everyone yelling, crying, hugging. Pick a meetup point for friends/family before the ceremony starts. Otherwise, you may not find each other.
6. Celebrate YOUR Way
Some people party all night. Some grab dinner and go home to nap. Some people cry in a car because of family tension. Whatever you do is valid. This is your moment, not a performance. Don’t do it for Instagram — do it for your own memory.
7. You Might Feel Lost the Next Day
There’s often a crash after a big life moment. The day after graduation might feel weird, sad, or anticlimactic. Be gentle with yourself. Take time to rest, reflect, and reset before jumping into what’s next.
Final Thought:
Graduation is a milestone, not a final destination. However it unfolds — beautifully, awkwardly, or somewhere in between — you earned this.
Make space to feel however you feel.
And remember: it’s just the beginning.
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About the Author:
Paradise Rodriguez-Bordeaux
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